Separating context from condemnation I’ve been thinking about how easily we confuse privacy with indecency. Most people treat them like they’re the same thing. They aren’t. Privacy is about setting.Indecency is about moral judgment. Somewhere along the way, we fused the two. And once they fused, it became hard to separate “this isn’t the right…
How multi-billion-dollar industry built a standard, sold you the cure, and blamed you for the damage. Let’s get something out of the way: you don’t have a body image problem. The mirror isn’t broken. Your perception isn’t faulty. You’re not damaged, delusional, or uniquely fragile. What you have is a rational response to an irrational…
You are not failing the process. The process was designed to keep you in it. Let’s be direct about something the self-improvement industry does not want you to notice: most of the tools designed to fix your body image were built inside the same system that created the problem. That is not a coincidence. The…